Scripts β Every Verbatim Wording on the Channel
Collected from all 37 videos. Adapt the specifics; keep the structure, because in most cases the structure is doing the psychological work.
Scripts β Every Verbatim Wording on the Channel
Collected from all 37 videos. Adapt the specifics; keep the structure, because in most cases the structure is doing the psychological work.
Pricing on your website
Bespoke / commissioned work (Zn_nEXBqO4s) > "Most of what I do is commissioned, so the price very much depends on the piece. A good starting point for [X] is [Β£Y]. Contact me, tell me what you've got in mind, and I'll come back to you with a more concrete quote."
Making a "bespoke" claim checkable (nIU5e4EwY3A) > "We measure your room and draw it from nothing, and the cabinets we build for you wouldn't fit in anybody else's house."
> "Our programs are bespoke, and by that we mean I'll interview four of the people in your team before I write a word, and what I write for you doesn't get delivered to anybody else."
Handling "you're too expensive"
Reframe the comparison β service (Zn_nEXBqO4s) > "I specialize in succession planning for family farms, rather than working across everything the way more general consultancies do."
Reframe the comparison β product (Zn_nEXBqO4s) > "Compared with the mid-market makers who concentrate on volume and may appear cheaper, all of our furniture is bespoke and handmade to order."
β οΈ Note what these do not do: disparage the competitor. "You're not dissing it."
When they name a cheaper rival (jwMwe0aBGUU) > "Yes, we are more expensive, absolutely." β then attach the difference to something specific and checkable: > "We specialize in luxury companies." (Don't add they don't β "the inference is there.") > "You'll be working with me directly, rather than a junior you've never met."
β οΈ Never feign ignorance of competitor pricing β "it makes you look evasive."
Instead of discounting
B2B / consulting (jwMwe0aBGUU) > "Your own team can do the data gathering, and that can make this stage more aligned with your budget."
Sessions / coaching / therapy (jwMwe0aBGUU) > "We could do six sessions instead of ten, and then re-evaluate after the sixth."
> The principle: they pay less because they're buying less. Never drop the price for the same scope.
Following up after a meeting or inquiry
β οΈ Same day β not 48 hours. And ask for nothing.
Structure (LdCi_vMOf3U):
- Open by acknowledging the human exchange β "Lovely to have seen you today"
- One specific piece of information, framed as your thinking continuing after they left
- A promise of future contact tied to a specific event
- Nothing else. No questions. No "shall we book a call."
> "It crossed my mind after you left that there's a navy version of the bag you were looking at coming out in a couple of weeks. I'll send you some pictures when it arrives."
> "It dawned on me after we hung up that another cruise line is launching something similar very shortly. I'll email you when I have more detail."
Why "it crossed my mind" matters: "It tells the client you're thinking about them outside of when they were in front of you β which is what care looks like."
Why the promise matters: it pre-installs permission for the next contact. When the second message lands weeks later it isn't an initiation β it's the fulfilment of a promise, so "the autonomy was never violated."
Telling a client they have to wait
β Never: "We don't have time until next month." β "a ghastly little sentence... you've framed honesty as a deficiency. It tells the client they've caught you at a bad moment β and they'll wonder whether somebody else might be having a better one."
β Instead (q8PUBnlMsrM): > "We take on a limited number of projects at any one time, so each one gets the proper attention. I'm going to allocate the week of the 8th for your full review. But I can certainly answer any questions by email before then, so we know exactly that we're on the same page."
Same one-month delay β "but it lands completely differently."
β οΈ Conditions: reply the same day, book a 20-minute call this week, give an actual date, and give them homework (planning history, survey, photographs, what they love and hate, a budget conversation) β "a client who spent evenings assembling a brief has already hired you in their own head."
And if the work is genuinely time-critical: say so plainly and refer them elsewhere.
Refusing work outside your specialism
(jwMwe0aBGUU) > "I can't help you with that. I don't think we would be the best partner for you. Here's who you ought to be calling instead."
> Why it matters: "Most of the time, that's the only refusal a client will ever actually witness." It costs real money on the day β "and that's precisely why it carries weight. That's costly signaling."
Ending a client relationship
(rLFlyOu_AzE) β on fit, never on behaviour.
> You have reviewed the relationship and concluded that you are no longer the right partner to deliver what they want.
Say it once and stop.
- β Don't list what they did wrong β "that turns it into a dispute, and disputes are their comfort zone"
- β Don't justify or give examples β "No is a full sentence"
- β οΈ Expect a counter-offer. Accepting "teaches them that pressure works."
Keep the conversation short and calm. "Just like a breakup, you don't do it with dramatics."
Apologising after your own mistake
(RukLSX4N1BM) β once, then behave differently.
> "I measured wrong, I've corrected it, it won't happen again."
If they've gone silent, one final message: > "Here's what went wrong. Here's what I've done to ensure that it doesn't reoccur. You'll see the difference."
Then stop. Let the silence hang. Over-deliver quietly for months.
> "People don't remember the apology. They remember the pattern that followed the apology."
Content prompts β what to actually post
(tWKQ_tWDWso) β the test: "somebody who doesn't know your field has to be capable of getting it wrong."
| Business | Instead of the baseline photo |
|---|---|
| Safari | What a safari actually is Β· what to expect Β· how safaris protect wildlife Β· how important the business is to Kenya Β· village stopovers |
| Travel agent | Why can't I order a cappuccino after 11:00? Β· Why do Italians get upset if you cut spaghetti? |
| Lifestyle concierge | The mechanics of your own job β how do I book a private jet? charter a yacht? source a rare watch? ("It doesn't matter whether the person watching will ever do it. They're curious.") |
| Skincare | What's in it Β· how the ingredients work on skin Β· the real difference from Clinique or La Mer β not before-and-afters ("leave those to the mid-market") |
| Builder | "Nine times out of ten the existing footings aren't deep enough and we'll end up underpinning β so if your quote hasn't got a line for that, ask them what happens when they get down there." |
Where to find more: the questions you answer every week, and the comment sections under other people's videos in your field.
Phrases to delete from your marketing
| β Phrase | Why |
|---|---|
| "High-end" | Stockroom language. High-end compared to what? |
| "Luxury [Yourname]" | "If you have to say it, you're not" |
| "Curated" (without rejecting anything) | "If you don't turn anything down, you haven't curated" |
| "Bespoke" (unqualified) | Cheap talk since the 2008 ASA ruling |
| "Artisanal," "handcrafted," "uncompromising quality" | Cheap talk β costs nothing, can't be checked |
| "We only work with the finest properties" | Everybody says it; no outsider could guess otherwise |
| "Better service / quality / attention to detail" | Expectations, not differentiators |
| "Strategic advisory services for growth-focused businesses" | "No amount of clever pricing is going to rescue that" |
| "Message me for details" | "Nobody is going to message you for details" |
| "Limited edition" (when it isn't) | Triggers reactance in experienced buyers |
| "Complimentary" (when it's included in the rate) | "None of it is complimentary. It's included." |
| "3 days preparation" in a proposal | Hands them the lever to negotiate |
The replacement test (jwMwe0aBGUU): finish "They come to me when ______" in the client's own words, describing their situation β not yours.